Saturday, November 8, 2008

A Week of Sundays

(Lukas wants this Monkey off his back!)
Ah, the grey overcast has arrived, the daylight is in short supply and open bumbershoots provide a colorful canvas of convex trampolines for the never-ending bombardment of raindrops from above. Fall in the Northwest usually means hunkering down, layering yourself before stepping out, inside projects meant to kill the time until the weather brightens, and often daydreaming about, or traveling to, some far off place where the sun still shines and shorts, a T-shirt, and flip-flops are still the attire of choice.

Given Lukas' yet to be fully resolved run in with some rather sinister bacteria, what was to be our first famiy vacation since his birth 16 long months ago didn't materialize. November sunshine and fresh air down south in Texas gave way to doctor visits, grey skies and flood warnings here in Washington. Not exactly what we had envisioned as that pick-me-up to build momentum and carry us through the long dark Winter months before the Spring begins again to rear its head (kinda like Putin) sometime in late March or early April.

In the place of a proper vacation, we have relaxed, completed projects around the house, had friends and family visit, and generally spent the time enjoying the company of our wonderful son. Everyday this week has been like a lazy Sunday for us, and it has been terrific. True, we would have liked to have slept in a bit longer (Fall Back is not a concept that a toddler sleep routine adapts to easily!), but that aside it has been a rare opportunity for both of us to be SAHP at the same time for an extended period.

Mrs. LIAYF and I have been able to interact on a more intimate level with Lukas given that the outside pressures of work and travel were alleviated. It has been amazing to be here to listen as his vocabulary seems to have exponentially taken off, and his understanding of the world around him blossoms. Each time I am witness to Luke saying a new word for the first time or demonstrating his growing understanding of the world around him by picking the right picture out of a series of photos when asked "where is the ...?", I feel as if I am privileged to be viewing something extraordinary happening.

I am not sure if it is because of who I am at this time in my life, because of how old I am as a first time father, or because I am a pretty boring guy in general, but to be here in the moment witnessing a child (my child) develop is nothing short of amazing. I may have missed a vacation, but just being able to spend the extra time with my son, especially when he is not feeling well, leaves me wanting nothing more.

Tomorrow, sadly, my week of Sundays will come to an end.


Anonymous said...

Being able to communicate with him is one greatest treasures. This person has been in your life for this long and you are finally getting past the grunts and pointing. It is a fun time!

Surfer Jay said...

Hey I'm boring now too! It's great to just sit there being mesmorized by the baby on a saturday night. And it is truly amazing how we can see them develop from month to month, week to week.Craziness.

Anonymous said...

I think it's an amazement that most dads share. I feel the same way when I watch Cooper figure out something new. It is astonishing, especially when you actually get some quality time to watch this development in action. I'm envious of your week of Sundays!

Martin said...

"kinda like Putin"

hee hee hee. You Betcha!

Dad Stuff said...

Those child milestones definitely brighten a dreary day. Our weather is making us hunker down too this week. Boardgames and cards are starting their season.

Ed (zoesdad) said...

The milestones do make it all worthwhile, don't they?

James (SeattleDad) said...

@MTAE - It certainly is. I am enjoying it.

@surfer jay - Yes, craziness indeed! Surprisingly they are very entertaining, aren't they?

@Xbox - I couldn't help myself!

@Rob - As a bonus, I get Tuesday off as well. Nice!

@Dadstuff - I actually look forward to the board games. Haven't played one in quite a while.

@Ed - Absolutley!

SciFi Dad said...

I remember the language explosion fondly. It seemed like every day we (the wife and I) were looking at one another saying, "Wait... when did she learn that?!?"

Might very well be the best part of parenting before logic and reason develop and they start negotiating.

James (SeattleDad) said...

@Scifi - Ah, so I have heard. I will be sure to enjoy this all the more knowing that I will have to polish another set of skills soon enough.